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Showing posts with label Father n Son. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Father n Son. Show all posts

Friday, July 10, 2015

Why Bad Things Happen To Innocent People?

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Someone just sent me this. You may have read this story before. I know I have.
A Lovely Story Of Love
~ Why Bad Things Happen To Innocent People?
~ by Unknown Author

At a fundraising dinner for a school that serves children with learning disabilities, the father of one of the students delivered a speech that would never be forgotten by all who attended. After extolling the school and its dedicated staff, he offered a question:
 
'When not interfered with by outside influences, everything nature does, is done with perfection.
 
Yet my son, Shay, cannot learn things as other children do. He cannot understand things as other children do.
 
Where is the natural order of things in my son?'

The audience was stilled by the query. 

The father continued. 'I believe that when a child like Shay, who was mentally and physically disabled comes into the world, an opportunity to realize true human nature presents itself, and it comes in the way other people treat that child.'

Then he told the following story: 

Shay and I had walked past a park where some boys Shay knew were playing baseball. Shay asked, 'Do you think they'll let me play?' I knew that most of the boys would not want someone like Shay on their team, but as a father I also understood that if my son were allowed to play, it would give him a much-needed sense of belonging and some confidence to be accepted by others in spite of his handicaps.

I approached one of the boys on the field and asked (not expecting much) if Shay could play. The boy looked around for guidance and said, 'We're losing by six runs and the game is in the eighth inning. I guess he can be on our team and we'll try to put him in to bat in the ninth inning.'

Shay struggled over to the team's bench and, with a broad smile, put on a team shirt. I watched with a small tear in my eye and warmth in my heart. The boys saw my joy at my son being accepted.
 
In the bottom of the eighth inning, Shay's team scored a few runs but was still behind by three.

In the top of the ninth inning, Shay put on a glove and played in the right field. Even though no hits came his way, he was obviously ecstatic just to be in the game and on the field, grinning from ear to ear as I waved to him from the stands.

In the bottom of the ninth inning, Shay's team scored again.

Now, with two outs and the bases loaded, the potential winning run was on base and Shay was scheduled to be next at bat.

At this juncture, do they let Shay bat and give away their chance to win the game?

Surprisingly, Shay was given the bat. Everyone knew that a hit was all but impossible because Shay didn't even know how to hold the bat properly, much less connect with the ball.

However, as Shay stepped up to the plate, the pitcher, recognizing that the other team was putting winning aside for this moment in Shay's life, moved in a few steps to lob the ball in softly so Shay could at least make contact.

The first pitch came and Shay swung clumsily and missed.
 
The pitcher again took a few steps forward to toss the ball softly towards Shay.
 
As the pitch came in, Shay swung at the ball and hit a slow ground ball right back to the pitcher.

The game would now be over.

The pitcher picked up the soft grounder and could have easily thrown the ball to the first baseman.

Shay would have been out and that would have been the end of the game.

Instead, the pitcher threw the ball right over the first baseman's head, out of reach of all team mates.

Everyone from the stands and both teams started yelling, 'Shay, run to first!

Run to first!'

Never in his life had Shay ever run that far, but he made it to first base.

He scampered down the baseline, wide-eyed and startled.

Everyone yelled, 'Run to second, run to second!'

Catching his breath, Shay awkwardly ran towards second, gleaming and struggling to make it to the base.
 
By the time Shay rounded towards second base, the right fielder had the ball . the smallest guy on their team who now had his first chance to be the hero for his team.
 
He could have thrown the ball to the second-baseman for the tag, but he understood the pitcher's intentions so he, too, intentionally threw the ball high and far over the third-baseman's head.

Shay ran toward third base deliriously as the runners ahead of him circled the bases toward home.
All were screaming, 'Shay, Shay, Shay, all the Way Shay'

Shay reached third base because the opposing shortstop ran to help him by turning him in the direction of third base, and shouted, 'Run to third!
 
Shay, run to third!'

As Shay rounded third, the boys from both teams, and the spectators, were on their feet screaming, 'Shay, run home! Run home!'

Shay ran to home stepped on the plate, and was cheered as the hero who hit the grand slam and won the game for his team.

'That day', said the father softly with tears now rolling down his face, 'the boys from both teams helped bring a piece of true love and humanity into this world'.
 
Shay didn't make it to another summer. He died that winter, having never forgotten being the hero and making me so happy, and coming home and seeing his Mother tearfully embrace her little hero of the day!
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Wednesday, November 05, 2014

Wednesday, May 30, 2012

Father & Son Joke & Pun of the Day

When a son said that his ambition was to drive an
army tank his father said 'I won't stand in your way'.


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Friday, February 03, 2012

Life, Relationships, Dad & Kites

My sister sent me a quote and I'm reminded of what Dad had to say about flying kites. He loved flying kites... or more like... fighting kites. He'd buy the strings, line it with glue mixed with broken glass (from florescent tubes), dry it in the sun... and then when it's ready... to test fighting it with other kite-fighters. The kites are fought so high in the air that the adversaries or opponents never actually see each other because they're very far away from one another.

I remember him saying... 
"Bringing up children is like flying a kite... you've got to know when to pull and when to let go."

Sometimes he'll say it in Singlish... 
"Bringing up children... like flying kite... you've must know when to (h)ulur and when to tarik."
(note... '(h)ulur' and 'tarik' are Malay words for 'release' and 'pull')

I've learnt that... life and relationships are very much like flying a a kite; 
you've got to know... when to hold... when to pull... and when to let go.
~ age 49

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Thursday, January 12, 2012

Fireworks or Firecrackers Comic Strip ~ ST, 2011 Dec 28, Wed...

There's a bit of a Father-Son humor in this comic strip.

Also... when I saw this comic strip if reminded me that Chinese New Year 2012 is just around the corner...
and also of a fun percussive acappella music arrangement I did called 'Chinese New Year Fire-Crackers'.

This is also the comic strip I enjoyed the most on this day. You can read the rest of them after you read this one.


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And here are the rest that came with the one above. Enjoy!
(click on image to enlarge).

    

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Monday, January 02, 2012

Play a Simple Melody ~ Bing Crosby & Gary Crosby

Father & Son Song, I like this counterpoint, round & canon effect. 
One day... I just might arrange an Acappella version of it.

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Play A Simple Melody ~ Bing Crosby & Gary Crosby ~ Lyrics
Composed & Arranged by Irving Berlin

Melody 1 ~ Bing Crosby (Baritone):
Won't you play some simple melody
Like my mother sang to me
One with a good old fashioned harmony
Play some simple melody

Melody 2 Gary Crosby (Tenor):
Musical demon set your honey a dreamin'
Won't you play me some rag
Just change that classical nag
To some sweet beautiful drag
If you will play from a copy
Of a tune that is choppy
You'll get all my applause
And that is simply because
I want to listen to rag

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Bing and Gary Crosby - Play A Simple Melody


There are not many examples of true "counterpoint" in American popular music and most of them belong to a single composer, Irving Berlin. "Play A Simple Melody" was written for Irving's first stage musical in 1914, "Watch Your Step", and was subsequently used in the 1954 film "There's No Business Like Show Business", but the biggest hit recording of it belongs to Bing and Gary Crosby.

In 1950, father and son combined vocal talents on this number and had a huge popular hit with it, but as Gary's book on his life, "Going My Own Way", would reveal years later, his life with Bing wasn't quite as rosy as this song would make it appear.

Comment/s:

Regarding their relationship its interesting to note that there might even be some suppressed anger coming through in Garys performance. Notice Bing's 'steady, steady' and 'don't lose your head' comments. I'm not sure that was scripted! Seems like he was on the verge of scolding his son in the middle of a song, haha.
Schizopantheist 3 months ago

i don't like to think of all the drama. just listen to music, i say.
ApoloExpress 1 year ago

@ApoloExpress Did you also know that Bing really abused Gary? He abused all of his sons from his first marriage. All four of them died before the reached 70 as well. Two of them, Dennis and Lindsay in their 50's, committed suicide, Gary died of lung cancer at just the age of 62 and Phillip died of a heart attack at 69. Bing Crosby was a very talented singer, as well as actor, but a drunken lout as well.
hulkyone 1 year ago

It's amazing that Gary would be willing to sing this song with his father, after all the abuse he gave him
hulkyone 1 year ago

cute pic where they're dressed identical :)
ApoloExpress 1 year ago

Thank you for this. I once heard the song on Radio 4 (UK) and it stuck. Today I did a search on the lyrics, then used them to locate this. It's been a long time.
KoenigZwert 1 year ago

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Thursday, December 29, 2011

A Father & Son Song ~ I Still Can't Say Goodbye ~ Chet Atkins ~ Lyrics ~ YouTube

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I Still Can't Say Goodbye ~ Chet Atkins ~ Lyrics ~ YouTube

When I was young, my Dad would say 
Come on Son let's go out and play
Sometimes it seems like yesterday

Then I'd climb up the closet shelf 
When I was all by my-self
Grab his hat and fix the brim 
Pretending I was him

No matter how hard I try
No matter how many tears I cry
No matter how many years go by
I still can't say good-bye

He always took care of Mom and me. 
We all cut down a Christmas tree
He always had some time for me

Wind blows through the trees
Street lights, they still shine bright
Most things are the same
but I miss my Dad to-night

I walked by a Salvation Army store 
Saw a hat like my daddy wore
Tried it on when I walked in 
Still trying to be like him

No matter how hard I try
No matter how many years go by
No matter how many tears I cry
I still can't say good-bye

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Chet Atkins - I Still Can't Say Goodbye.avi
Every time I look in the mirror I see my dad... that's why this song means so much to me.


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Tommy Emmanuel - I Still Can't Say Goodbye



Top Comments

Before he died Tommy promised Chet he would continue to perform this song as long as he breathed...
Tommy lost his father when he was 14...
The song's an emotional monster...
I love both versions and yes they make me cry
Grockle1345 1 year ago

My father passed away 4yrs ago, and after listening to this version, I loved it sooo much, I managed to learn this on my guitar as well. Now I play this everytime I visit my Dad's grave. Never forgeting him, always missing him.THANK YOU Tommy !!!!!!!!!!!
brandontntbel1 1 year ago 

I saw Tommy play this in Hull last night, it was absolutely stunning. What an incredible musician he is.
mozmal 3 weeks ago

Thank you Tommy - you brought me to a place I'd long buried. My hearts broken once again, but this time not so much as before - Steve
54v115 1 month ago

@biggerbigd Saw him in February this year (St. Petersburg), there wasn't a single dry eye in the house.
ricklandor 1 month ago

Love ya Tommy, You are the greatest. I try to play Borsalino in your honor.
Octoguitarian70 1 month ago in playlist Tommy Emmanuel,Chet Atkins,Jerry Reed

I have to leave the room when I hear this.
BigBrian
brianw793 1 month ago

Nothing like one man and his guitar belting out an epic song............thats just dust in my eye honest
DavoCitizen 2 months ago

I have seen him do this live 3 times and it gets me every damn time! You would have to be a non-human to not feel this. It means even more when you know his dad died when he was about 10.
biggerbigd 3 months ago

I Love keeping Chet alive through his music, Thank you Tommy
ehimprovement 3 months ago in playlist Tommy Emmanuel,Chet Atkins,Jerry Reed 2  
If Kyser is good enough for Tommy, its good enough for me! Beautiful version of this song too!
Labrabob 4 months ago

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Chet - TV Interview & "I Still Can't Say Goodbye"

Never...
a bad word said,
for or against,
always a Gentleman, 
and every song,
a finger-picking Gem.

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Monday, May 09, 2011

Mr Men & Little Miss

Remember 'Mr Men and Little Miss'? 

Personally, I like Mr Tickle and Little Miss Bossy. They remind me of 2 people that are very special to me. I think it is only coincidence that these two were the first to be created in the Mr Men and Little Miss Series of books, respectively.

Well... today is the birthday of Roger Hargreaves, an English author and illustrator of children's books, notably the Mr. Men and Little Miss series, intended for very young readers. The books' simple and silly stories, with bright-coloured, boldly drawn illustrations, have been part of popular culture for over 25 years, with sales over 85 million worldwide in 20 languages.

"What does a tickle look like?" ~ This was the question asked by a six year-old boy of his father, one morning in 1971 that inspired Roger Hargreaves to create a little orange man with a big toothy grin, a blue hat and extraordinarily long arms. And so, Mr. Tickle, the first of the Mr. Men, was born in 1971. 

Here's a bit of History. The first six Mr. Men books were published in United Kingdom in 1971, priced at 20 pence each. Mr. Tickle was the first Mr. Men character created by Hargreaves, inspired by his son, Adam, who had asked him what a tickle looked like. Hargreaves responded with a round, orange figure with long, bendy arms. Each book in the original Mr. Men and Little Miss series introduced a different title character and his/her single dominant personality to convey a simple moral lesson. The Mr. Men and Little Miss characters frequently reappeared in other characters books. The books' simple stories, with brightly-coloured, boldly-drawn illustrations, made them very popular with children, delivering sales of over 100 million worldwide across 28 countries. 

Little Miss Bossy is the first book in the Little Miss series.

Roger Hargreaves, who was an advertising copywriter, had been looking for not just a way to entertain his children but also a way to make money. Here's what Adam Hargreaves has to say of his father, Roger Hargreaves and 'Mr Men and Little Miss'. 

"My dad was very ambitious... It wasn't just writing books for us as kids. It just evolved from that. He sat down and wanted to create an idea that would give him a lifestyle and way of living that he wanted. He had seen what had happened with strip cartoons in the sixties, the likes of Snoopy and that kind of thing, that you could take characters and they could become commercially successful."

Here's a collection of ALL the 'Mr Men and Little Miss' Series.


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Thursday, October 07, 2010

News ~ "He was still my father after all, and I had to bury him."

Dear God,

We pray for this boy of 17 (in 2010), Yu Wei that he would grow up without the negative effects of his experiences with the circumstances surrounding the death of his mother & father. May he adjust well in soceity and may he meet people who will help him in his life's journey.

Amen.

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His Suicide Is An Escape
The Electric New Paper, June 24, 2010
By Elysa Chen
http://tnp.sg/news/story/0,4136,245996,00.html

Chinese youth whose father murders mother and kills himself in prison says father didn't have courage to face punishment. On June 26 last year, 17-year-old Yu Wei rushed home to find the police at his door. His mother had been stabbed to death. Worse, his father was the killer. Three months later, on Sept 20, his father committed suicide in prison while awaiting trial for murder. The tragedy has left Yu Wei, who came from China with his mother to study here, an orphan. He has no relatives here. A family friend acts as his guardian and visits him once a week. The findings of a joint coroner's inquiry into his parents' deaths yesterday brought him little comfort. Yu Wei's father, Yu Qiangguo, 45, had fatally stabbed his mother, Madam Wei Hong, 41, and hanged himself in his jail cell. He was prepared to forgive his father once the man was sentenced in the High Court, but that chance never came. Still, Yu Wei decided to forgive his father when he learned of his death. He said: "He was still my father after all, and I had to bury him."

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Wednesday, May 05, 2010

We Think We Know...

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"We think we know until 
we find out that we don't."
~ PGA, 2010May05, Wednesday, 1130hrs

I'm glad I had the opportunity to be with Dad on most of his hospital visits... would have been better if I had the car then... so stupid, I have never thought that I would ever have the need to drive a car. I have never thought that I will be able to own a car. I've learned that… sometimes... we think we know until we find out that we don't .
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Wednesday, January 20, 2010

Drumming with Dad

Son & Father ~ Aaron & Jimmy Lee
Drum Duet
at Child Aid Concert 2008
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-KdeNGZnpmQ


Aaron Lee's mother is Jazz Singer, Anne Weerapass. Check out the Aaron's drum solo right after his dad, (Jimmy Lee) does a drum-stick twirl to signify the start of the solo at 1min5sec into the video. There's even the dynamics of loud & soft playing while varying the tempo to show off his maturity, even at a tender age of 13 in this video.



2008 News Article (Below):

Click on images to enlarge for easy reading...
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Monday, October 26, 2009

Story ~ What Is That, It's A Sparrow

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http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=y381DEn5Ku0



This Greek short film (with English subtitle) was made in 2007.
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Father and son are sitting on a bench. Suddenly a sparrow lands across them. The old Father asks son, “What is that?” to which the son replies “A Sparrow” and looks back into his newspaper. After sometime his father again asks him “What is that”. A little annoyed, son replies “I just told you father, its a sparrow”.
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Then, the sparrow flies to the other side and sits there. The father repeats his question “what is that?”. This time, son replies “A sparrow father, a sparrow…s-p-a-r-r-o-w……” and when again the father repeats his question, son is filled with anger and says “Why are you doing this Father? How many times I told you its a sparrow!!!”
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Father gets up and goes into the house to take his old dairy. He comes back and asks his son to read a passage from the dairy, which goes like this “Today my youngest son, who a few days ago turned three, was sitting with me at the park when a sparrow sat in front of us. My son asked me 21 times what it was and I answered all 21 times that it was a sparrow. I hugged him every single time he asked me the same question again and again without getting mad, feeling affection for my innocent little boy.”
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Thursday, January 08, 2009

Lavanya’s Indian Recipes & Cooking Site

http://www.geocities.com/lchittajallu/Recipes.html

A well mantained site with a comprehensive collection of Indian Recipes. At the time of writting this blog, there were no pictures of the dishes BUT that makes moving around in the website easy, fast & without delay. If you do use the dishes, remember to give credit where it is due.

Check it out at: http://www.geocities.com/lchittajallu/Recipes.html

Lavanya's probably the Lady in the centre

The Cherukuri Family